My Boyfriend's Having an Affair, But I Still Love Him

Monday, 11 September 2006 22:57

I've been with my first boyfriend for 6 years. He recently told me he needed some time apart. I'm devastated. He never gave me any indications that our relationship was not working. He is now seeing another guy, who is younger than both of us. Many months ago, he asked if his "friend" could live with us. I told him I didn't want him there, but he didn't care so I moved out. After 6 weeks I went back to him, even though his friend was still there.

Dear Desperate Diva,

Later, after finding out he was having an affair with his friend, he told me he needed time to sort out his thoughts. He also wanted to make sure I was the one he wanted to be with. On top of that, he went on a trip with the other guy while I stayed at home. I love him with all my heart and I don't want to end this relationship. What do I do?

Aunt Phyll

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