Does my bum look fat in this? Maybe the first thing that comes to mind when thinking, oh my god do I have to wear a tight fitting, slinky piece of lingerie! But don’t fear kinky doesn’t necessarily have to mean clothes. Kinky accessories can be just as fun and if your sex life is taking the turn for the worst a bit of accessorising will surely put back the ‘O’ into your love making!

The question is what to start with? If you are new to all things kinky or just looking for a bit of sexual spice, restraints are a good place to start. Sexual non-threatening fun!

Though, it’s important that boundaries are set with you and your lover and adhered to. One must not feel that what might start as a bit of kinky fun turns into disaster because you feel like you’ve have been taken out of your comfort zone.

It’s even more important with restraints because unlike kinky clothing if it all becomes a bit too much at least you still feel like you are in control and have the power to take the item of clothing off. Though, with restraints trust is very important as you are at the mercy of your lover, as they have the key to unlock the restraint.

If you really want to try restraints but still feel uncomfortable with the notion of being tired up with no way of getting loose there is no need to lock them. Just the placing of them around the wrists or ankles can get you in the mood. If that still makes you uncomfortable you could always use a scarf tired loosely round your ankles and wrists.

The easiest type of accessory to start with is the simple PVC Blindfold. An oldie but a goldie! Nothing better than not knowing what your lover is going to do next. Feeling the soft touch of their lips against your skin, cool puffs of air coming from their mouth, running down your stomach in anticipation as to what comes next!

After conquering the simple but sensual blindfold, I’d suggest moving onto another familiar face the 2 Tone Handcuffs. The great thing about these cuffs is that you can actually take them off yourself, as it’s not a lock and key device. What could be more sexier than being tired up and even blindfolded while your lover has their way with you!

When one thinks of restraints what usually comes to mind is the wrist but that shouldn’t be the case as something around the ankles can be just as hot or even hotter! A simple but effective tool is the Leg Spreader. What you get is what you see. The name says it all and leaves nothing to the imagination.

So next time your sex starts to go a bit stale instead of grabbing for the TV remote control have a pair of restraints available cause sex will never be the same without those 2 Tone Cuffs again!

 

By: Amazin LeThi: www.amazinlethi.com