FOREPLAY - So what is foreplay? Well if you've watched Austin Power's movie, The Spy Who Shagged Me, remember the bit when Austin Powers' wife reveals her high-caliber breasts? It's just before she tries to assassinate him, Austin Powers exclaims: "Machine gun jubblies! How did I miss those, baby?"
"Maybe next time you should try foreplay," she advises.

In essence foreplay is the hard sell before you cut the deal so to speak. It's the necessary physical stimulation that increases sexual excitement before intercourse. For many women foreplay is far more important than the act of having an orgasm.

Just because a woman maybe horny doesn't mean she is wet and ready for sex! Unbuttoning your blouse doesn't constitute 20 minutes of foreplay that many women need to become aroused emotionally and physically to get those vaginal juices flowing before they feel ready for sex.

Foreplay is anything from turning the lights down low to set the mood, erotic massages, kissing, cuddling to whispering sweet nothings in your girlfriend’s ear while slowly taking off each other’s clothing.

The Sexual Sale's Pitch Before Going in for the Double Whammy!

Be creative, take your time, It's not a play, the vagina doors aren't closing in 5 minutes. Play your cards right they could be open for 24 hours!

A good lover knows that foreplay is the perfect time to get to know your girl, finding out what she likes and dislikes. Succeeding in the sexual sale's pitch so to speak and finding out what you and your girl need to be fully stimulated to reach sexual arousal before sex is the key ingredient to a more pleasurable and magical, satisfying sexual experience.

Foreplay Ingredients

You get what you ask for, if it's fish and chips every night, expect your girl to go into auto drive 'Not tonight honey'! One has to have a little imagination here. Pretend it's the first time every time!

The Foreplay Shopping List

Make a date

Just because you've been dating for sometime now, if not years doesn't mean you can't make a date with your girl. Pretend you don't know her (not to the point where you forget her name!) and leave a message on her cell phone asking her out. Treat it like a real date and get to know her all over again.

Foreplay isn't just about what happens in the bedroom, it's the whole experience that may start with a dinner date to a walk in the park.

The Surprise Element

Surprise your girl with a candle lit bath or room, essential oils by the bed ready for an erotic massage and the sounds of sweet music playing in the background.

If you are going to give your girl a massage, make sure if you choose scented oils you test them before hand. Nothing worse then knocking your lover out with the powerful aroma or giving them a rash! I can assure you foreplay would end quicker than a blink of an eye if this happened.

Talking Dirty

Saying the right words should get anyone's love juices flowing and in the mood for some loving. If you are talking dirty for the first time it's probably advised to start with something mild and wait for their reaction.

Maybe start with telling her how wet your pussy is. Tell her how hot you feel against her silky skin. Starting with you nasty bitch, come here slut or give it to me you dirty cunt will probably end in a slap across the face rather than a kiss on the lips!

Dirty talk isn't for everyone, with the right words it will either turn you on or turn you away.

Touch

Foreplay could easily be merely defined as touching each other's body. This could be in the form of kissing, cuddling and caressing. Don't just go for the obvious erogenous zones such as the breasts or butt. Every inch of someone's body can become highly sensitive when sexually excited.

Make sure you mix up your moves. It's very easy to go into auto drive and move from nipples, genitals to sex. Start with the least sexual areas such as neck, shoulders or feet then move to earlobes, lips, nipples and genitals. It comes back to that element of surprise that will have your girl coming back for more.

Let your fingers do the walking and by communicating with your girl with each sensation felt will give you a better idea where to touch and how to touch them to set the night on fire!

Accessorize!

Every girl knows how to accessorize and just because it's foreplay doesn't mean you shouldn't accessorize!

Forget your mouth and hands for the night and replace them with ice, a rose, feathers, a furry blind fold, warm towel, breaths of air, hot wax and for the more adventurous nipple clamps.

The combination of hot and cold causes the blood vessels in the being area stimulated to expand and contract which in turn heightens overall sexual pleasure.

Location, Location, Location

Relocate, Fu...k! the bedroom, what happened to lust, when you wanted them there and then, no time to wait. Live dangerously, add a bit of spice to your love life.

Start seducing your lover at the kitchen table, while on the couch, in the shower or while on the phone, stand in front of them and do an erotic strip tease.

Just by placing foreplay in another location other than the bedroom can be enough to arouse your girl.

The Afterplay

You've done the sale's pitch, cut the deal, don't think now the sale is over and you can roll over and fall asleep!

The afterplay is just as important as foreplay. If you're a good salesperson, you'll follow through making sure your customer is fully satisfied with their purchase. It would be quite easy to roll over and fall asleep thinking the job is done, but this can leave your girl feeling somewhat cheated.

It's the 'I love you' bit but I have nothing to gain by it. At this point you are reviewing the act of foreplay by doing the same things such as kissing, cuddling and touching but in a non-sexual way as you've already performed the act of sex.

You don't want your girl feeling tricked and cheated because they feel that you've just performed A,B,C, anything to bed them. Showing affection at this point assures your girl that it wasn't just a wham bam thankyou mam!

What you do in afterplay will pay off and will make it easier the next time round. Foreplay is an integral part of lovemaking and is something that takes time.

Just remember if your girl is satisfied with her sexual experience she'll certainly be back for more.